Ladies I am
tired of your belly aching. Your predicament
(single parenthood) is your fault. No one told
you to open your leg. The fact that you did was a
personal choice. Did you make the baby alone? No.
However, you knew when you engaged in this
behavior that pregnancy was a possibility,
especially since contraceptive methods are not
100 percent successful.
Cast
not your pearls before swine.
I am
in no way excusing the male population
responsible for these babies. Notice that I did
not say men. This is because boys runaway from
their responsibilities, men stand up to them. Yes
it is unfortunate that these individuals have
left you high and dry, but you knew the rules
before you played the game.
Growing
up I used to hear my elders say “momma's
baby–daddy's maybe,” when referring to
girls who were pregnant and alone. They were
absolutely right. Males normally reply, “How
do I know it's mine?” For them there is
always a question; but there is no question when
it comes to females, the baby is yours.
So
don't expect them to do the right thing and stand
up for the baby. Protect yourself from
unwanted pregnancy. If you're not ready to have a
baby, stop playing the roulette game known as
premarital sex.
The
Bible says, “Cast not your pearls before
swine.” In others words don't put your best
out for people who aren't going to or can't
appreciate it. That is exactly what you do when
you have premarital sex. Your body is the most
precious gift that you can give to a man. So why
give it to someone that has not respected you
enough to make a life long commitment?
Sex
is a no brainer. Anyone can do it. What you
need to realize is that the word sex is not
synonymous with love. If it were you wouldn't be
a single parent now would you? Yet the minute you
are late, you panic or get mad. For what? You
knew the rules. Stop blaming your lack of
judgement on him.
Not
only are you mad at him, you don't want a baby,
and your first thought is abortion. You gave him
power over your body when you had intercourse.
Now he has even more power. You are going to
ravage your body to get rid of his baby. Ladies
wake up. Your bad choices are not that unborn
baby's fault. Why should he or she suffer?
Suppose your mother had been forced to make the
same decision you are faced with now. If she had
gone the abortion route you would not be here
now.
Am I
being harsh? Yes. I intend to be. I hope you get
very angry. It's okay with me. The end justifies
the means if I get one woman to think about the
consequences of her actions before she acts.
Reflection of your past decisions is a little
late after discovering that you are pregnant.
Women
give men entirely too much power over them. I
know, I've been there and done that. So don't get
mad, make better decisions.
`Til
next week be safe.
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